What is Ancestral Healing? – The Wellness Universe Blog

Our ancestors live within us through memories and as energetic and emotional patterns. We are meant to be the embodiment of all our ancestral gifts, but first, we have to traverse the fears held in our lineage. 

I once heard someone say, “You have to do a lot of your own healing first before you can do ancestral healing.” 

I disagree. I believe our ancestral patterns are so deeply ingrained that we can never separate from them. In trying, we run the risk of embarking on an egoic mission to fix something external. We can heal and embody their gifts, though.

Ancestral healing is about allowing what’s unresolved to complete its cycle. Then we can move on and flow freely with life again. To do that, we must come into the right relationship with those who came before us. We must claim the gifts of their tribulations and release the subconscious fears. We can do this through meditation, ceremony, embodied awareness, and spiritual practice. 

Awakening a Living Connection

When I began sitting in ceremony with an indigenous leader, something shifted. My relationship with my ancestors went from intellectual belief to experiential knowing. It wasn’t about “honouring” them in concept; a living dialogue emerged. I feel the presence, support, joy, and even the humour of my ancestors; I feel it directly.

This connection changed everything. The ancestors became real, living advocates for my life purpose. As I’ve come to understand, they have a vested interest in the fulfillment of my life purpose. It’s an extension of their wishes. 

The “Blessed Child” Lineage

When I was born, my great-grandmother called me the Blessed Child. This title caught, and several family members lovingly followed suit. It always felt like a term of endearment, but it also seemed to carry a weight. The “blessing” came with what I interpreted as an unspoken spiritual assignment. To heal, uplift, and fulfill what others in my lineage had been unable to do.

It shaped my sense of purpose. It felt sacred. I hadn’t realized then that I was unconsciously taking it on as a burden, one that I’m sure was never intended.

As I deepened into ceremony and embodiment work, I began to see what ancestral healing is, and isn’t. It doesn’t mean carrying everything for the lineage. It’s not my job to dissolve the family karma, nor is it anyone’s. 

The real invitation is to live freely. To release the patterns of suffering, and to replace them with wholehearted living. 

There came a point when I had to stop trying to heal every single pattern and start living as one who is healed. Once I did, the healing deepened naturally. Freedom is now the unselfish medicine it was always meant to be.

Our conditioning has deep roots. These include childhood experiences, ancestral imprints, karmic lessons, and past lives. Add to that environmental conditioning and the collective consciousness. These layers interact constantly.

Seeing this complexity helps us hold compassion for ourselves, our families, and humanity. 

We must let go of fearful patterns and stories of hardship that get passed down. At the same time, we remember them and their strengths. To heal is to embrace and acknowledge the gifts hidden within their trials and tribulations. The healing has happened when you feel grateful for those hurdles. You know they were character-building experiences that couldn’t have happened any other way. 

The Embodied Vision Approach

In my work with the Embodied Vision Method, we don’t spend much time in Story. It can be a challenge to release any fascination with any scenarios that come to light during a session.

Those stories can become endless energy loops. To remain invested in them perpetuates stuck energy. Instead, we witness and feel the energy that needs to move, and ask for Divine grace to release it. 

This is healing through direct experience, not through analysis of the mental field. This is how the subconscious reorganizes from within. In a meditative state, the healing occurs in the Timeless Now.

What do the Ancestors Want?

In meditation, a clear message from my ancestors came through:

“You don’t honour us by suffering the way we did and continuing to sacrifice. You honour our sacrifices by living fully.”

Living wholeheartedly isn’t indulgence. It is devotion and gratitude for the gift of life itself. Self-actualization is nothing to feel guilty about! It’s the completion of the blessings, hopes, and dreams whispered over you at birth. 

Healing Through the Generations

In the Yoga tradition, we’re told that when we heal, the vibration ripples forward and backward. It heals at least seven generations in both directions. But we only need to resolve the un-truths that are active in us. No one family member is responsible for anything more in the lineage. That’s what you have a whole family for! 

This clarity takes away the overwhelm. The required healing becomes specific, embodied, and graceful rather than endless and abstract.

A common idea in our culture is to release patterns by stating, “This is not mine.”

Chances are, though, if you’ve been living out that pattern, it’ll persist. That only means there are gifts for you to retrieve before you throw the baby out with the bathwater. Your subconscious mind is designed to keep you safe, so it’ll never let you do that anyway. The answer is to take responsibility for the assignment you’ve been given. Acknowledge the gifts to heal the pattern, for the sake of your own family collective. 

True healing stems from deep forgiveness, which is a complex, multi-layered practice. Often, we don’t forgive for reasons. One is the fear that someone will perpetrate against you again. Another reason we don’t forgive is out of spite. The gifts of safety and compassion (among others) set you free. 

When you truly forgive others, you recognize that they, too, have suffered enough. If there’s one thing that releases them, it’s love. This is the double meaning of the Blessed Child. She restores innocence in everyone by first embodying it within her own heart. Then, she sees everyone else in the same light, until they begin to see themselves that way. 

When we bring awareness and love to a pattern, it dissolves across timelines. The soul’s evolution doesn’t require tracing every single origin. It only needs presence and willingness to shift into full alignment.

Ego’s Subtle Traps in Healing

We all know, it’s easy for the ego to sneak into spiritual work. We can fall into feeling superior because we’re the ones “doing the healing,” or we feel guilty for not doing enough. Both are distortions.

Healing never creates hierarchy and separation; it integrates. Nor does it always need something to fix. Each person in the lineage plays their part perfectly. Some carry shadow, others bring light. Humanity needs to create the whole experience that allows consciousness to evolve. 

Would you like to live from your ancestral gifts? If so, I have two suggestions:

The first is a Daily Practice I developed to clear patterns that keep you stuck. It takes about 10 minutes per day, once you know the process. I’ve outlined how to do it in the Daily Practice masterclass, over at the Wellness Universe. 

If you’d prefer 1:1 support, reach out through my Wellness Universe profile, and I’ll share how you can get started. 

Ultimately, ancestral healing is about becoming an embodied spiritual being. The purpose of clearing old energy is to free vitality, creativity, and mastery.

We honour our ancestors by expressing and experiencing the fullness of our being. We live large, not from ego, but from essence. Living these gifts is an offering of reverence to our loved ones on the other side. 

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Holly Blazina’s Gutsy Type Method is an alchemy of the Yoga and Ayurveda traditions, Embodied Vision Coaching, and her work as an author, flamenco guitarist, composer and recording artist. She helps empaths solve their gut issues, amplifying their personal power in service of their life’s purpose.

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