Living JOYELY® as a Lifestyle

Welcome to the 12th (and final) installment in my yearlong series on Joy Intelligence (JQ)! 

Living JOYELY® as a Lifestyle

Practical ways to integrate joy into every aspect of life, creating a sustainable and fulfilling lifestyle.

What does it mean to live “JOYELY®” as a lifestyle? In simple terms, it means making joy a deliberate part of your everyday life – not just an occasional peak experience, but a guiding principle in how you live, work, and relate to others. Living JOYELY is about infusing your day with intentional moments of joy, adopting a mindset that looks for the good (without denying challenges), and building rituals and relationships that sustain your happiness and well-being. It’s a lifestyle that acknowledges the full spectrum of emotions – you still face stress, sadness, and anger at times – but it emphasizes returning to joy as your emotional home base. This echoes JOYELY’s philosophy that “joy is within our power to cultivate” and that doing so enables us to thrive in all aspects of life.

Adopting a joyful mindset doesn’t mean walking around with a fake smile or ignoring real issues. Rather, it’s about guiding your inner dialogue in a positive, constructive direction. When facing a challenge, it means asking “What can I learn from this?” or “Is there an opportunity hidden in this difficulty?” instead of immediately falling into despair. It also means celebrating small wins and moments. This ongoing celebration keeps the positive experiences “alive” longer in your mind, which research shows can enhance mental well-being and reduce stress by reinforcing positive neural pathways.

Relationships and community are also integral to living JOYELY. Joy multiplies when shared, so a JOYELY lifestyle encourages you to nurture positive relationships and spread joy to others. This could mean prioritizing quality time with family and friends or maybe finding a “joy tribe” – people who also value positivity and personal growth – to support and inspire each other. Living JOYELY in relationships often comes down to communication: expressing appreciation frequently, laughing often, and practicing kindness as a default. And when conflicts or tough times arise (which they do in any relationship), a joy-informed approach would be to face them with empathy and hope – remembering the goodwill built during joyful times and using it as a foundation to resolve issues constructively.

Finally, living JOYELY is about emotional flow – letting emotions move through you without clinging or suppressing. Adopting a JOYELY mindset involves a lot of self-compassion. It recognizes that it’s okay to have off days and negative emotions – you don’t judge yourself harshly for them. Instead, you give yourself grace and perhaps use the Chair of JOY or another soothing ritual to help emotions flow through (rather than bottling them up). Likewise, when joy comes, the idea is to really feel it – laugh out loud, do a happy dance, share it – and actually expand it to train your brain to recognize “this is important, let’s remember and repeat this.” Over time, you’ll likely find that living a joy-centered lifestyle makes you more resilient to stress, more creative and more connected to the people around you. 

Actionable Insights: 

Here are some daily practices and mindset tweaks to help you embrace joy as a lifestyle:

• Morning joy ritual: Begin your day with a quick joy practice instead of immediately checking your phone. For example, sit in a comfy chair (your own “Chair of Joy”), take 3 deep breaths, and set an intention like “Today, I will find moments to smile.” This simple ritual can shift you into a proactive and positive mindset each morning.
• Mindful transitions: Use the little transition moments in your day as mini joy opportunities. Walking to your car or between meetings? Instead of rushing, notice something beautiful around you (the sky, a tree, people’s smiling faces) or hum a favorite tune. These brief mindful moments keep joy flowing even on busy days.
• Gratitude dinner: If you live with family or friends, make it a habit during dinner (or another shared time) for everyone to share one thing they’re grateful for or a moment that made them happy that day. This turns mealtime into a joy-sustaining ritual and strengthens your bonds through positive sharing.
• Joy-friendly space: Arrange your living or work space to remind you of joy. Maybe put up photos that make you happy, add a cheerful color, or keep a Joy Jar where you drop notes about good things that happen. A supportive environment can instantly lift your mood on hard days and encourages a lifestyle of joy by design.

You can watch the video below to learn more about Living JOYELY® as a Lifestyle and I’ll also lead you through a Chair of Joy experience. 

This is the last “episode” of my What’s your JQ? Embracing JOY as a Core Life Skill yearlong series, and I’ve so enjoyed sharing these JOY-full reflections, insights, and strategies with you! Please do reach out and let me know how I can support you in integrating joy into every aspect of your life so you can make a positive difference in the world. 

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Life & Relationship Coach, Deborah Roth, MA is also a Counseling Astrologer, and Interfaith Minister. She leads women’s New Moon Circles and Full Moon TeleMeditations every month and loves designing creative, meaningful rituals for individuals and couples to energize their lives and relationships.

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