Grounded Presence Builds Resilience – The Wellness Universe Blog

A client rushed into my office in a flustered whirlwind of swirling thoughts, shoulders tight, and talking fast. She complained of a pounding headache and feeling overwhelmed. 

I could feel her energy spinning frantically.

I invited her to pause. “Let’s get you grounded,” I said gently. “Let’s move that swirling energy out of your head.”

Grounded Presence means being fully present in your body and connected to your heart so you can stay steady and stable when the winds of change blow around you.

What Does It Mean to Be Grounded?

We live in a culture that celebrates speed.
Do more. Be more. Keep up. Catch up. Run faster. 

Our nervous systems rarely get a break. We modern humans often live from the neck up—thinking, analyzing, managing. We lose touch with the natural intelligence of our body and the steady rhythm of the Earth beneath our feet.

Grounded Presence is the art of coming home to yourself. It’s a practice of dropping awareness from the thinking mind into the sensing body, and anchoring into the heart space, where intuition, compassion, and calm coexist.

It’s a reset button for your whole system.

From Swirl to Stillness

With my client, I guided her to slow down.
“Bring your awareness from your head to your heart,” I said.

“Breathe through your heart as if you have a nose in the center of your chest.”

She paused, then tried it. Her breath softened. The color came back into her face.

“Now imagine tree roots growing through your feet into the Earth,” I continued. “See your root system expanding outward, spreading under the surface of the Earth, collecting nourishment.”

Then, I added:
“Listen with the ears of your heart. What do you need right now?”

After a few moments, her shoulders dropped. Her energy settled.
She exhaled a deep sigh and quietly said, “I feel more like myself.”

When you get out of your head and into your heart, you quiet the noise so you can hear your inner wisdom. Heart wisdom is where the highest and best version of you meets real life. 

My Own Grounding Practice

On a day I was feeling off balance and out of sorts, I went for a walk and wrapped my arms around my favorite oak tree. 

If I were a tree, I would be an oak tree. 

Its roots are as broad underground as its branches are above the ground. That’s how it stays steady and stable when the wind blows.

I pressed my heart into the thick tree trunk and felt the rough bark against my cheek. I watched the branches sway and the leaves shimmer in the wind.

I could feel the tree’s energy—rooted, steady, and stable.

That moment reminded me to get rooted in my own being. To remember that strength and flexibility coexist. I walked back into my busy day feeling nourished and resourceful.

The Core of Resilience

Structure helps us feel steady and stable.
Heart connection gives us courage and flexibility.
Together, they create resilience.

When life’s storms hit—and they will—get grounded enough to bend without breaking. Stay rooted enough to sway.

Life challenges us to grow through change. Resilience is cultivated through presence, awareness, and response in the face of change.

Grounded Presence transforms reaction into conscious choice.
Instead of spiraling into stress, you pause, breathe, and connect to your inner wisdom. 

Why Grounded Presence Matters

Resilience begins in the body. When your nervous system feels safe, your mind can relax, your intuition awakens, and your creativity flows.

When you’re grounded:

• You respond instead of react.
• You notice what’s actually happening in the moment.
• You access clarity instead of confusion.
• You move with, not against, change.

These days, we’re constantly distracted by screens, ideas, worries, and what-ifs. Grounding brings your energy into the present moment and into your feet, your breath, your heartbeat, your truth.

This is spiritual embodiment. 

Simple Ways to Practice Grounded Presence

Here are some practices you can use anytime you feel unsteady, anxious, or disconnected:

1. Notice

Awareness is the first step.

• Notice when your thoughts are spinning or your breath is shallow.
• Notice your body’s signals—tight jaw, racing heart, tense shoulders.
• Ask yourself: Where is my focus right now? In my head, or in my body?

2. Breathe

• Place your hand on your heart.
• Imagine breathing through your heart center.
• Inhale for a count of four, exhale for a count of six.
• Feel your breath move through your entire body.

3. Ground

• Visualize tree roots growing through your feet deep into the Earth.
• Sense energy moving downward, releasing stress into the ground.
• Imagine Earth energy nourishing you through your feet and bathing you in stability, calm, and strength.

4. Allow

• Instead of pushing emotions away, let them flow through.
• Name what you’re feeling without judgment.
• Trust that emotions are energy in motion. Allow emotions to surface and flow through you, not define you.

5. Connect

• Step outside. Feel your bare feet on the ground.
• Hug a tree. Touch a leaf. Watch the sky change.
• Let nature remind you how to breathe again.

6. Respond

• From this grounded space, ask: What is mine to do now?
• Move forward with conscious action rather than reaction.
• Listen to your heart-wisdom for your next right action. Let your next step arise naturally, not from fear or habit.

Building Resilience Through Grounded Presence

Resilience isn’t a personality trait that only some people are gifted with. Resilience is a skill you can cultivate and strengthen with practice.

To build resilience through Grounded Presence:

• Practice daily grounding. Even two minutes of mindful breathing through your feet can calm your nervous system.
• Create simple rituals. Light a candle before you start work. Stretch before checking emails. Let ritual anchor your day.
• Nourish your body. Eat grounding foods such as root vegetables, whole grains, and warm soups.
• Move your energy. Dance, walk, stretch, or sway to release stagnant energy.
• Rest and reset. Rest is not laziness. Rest allows your physical body to regenerate and your mental and emotional bodies to recalibrate.
• Stay connected. Reach out for support when you need it. We are resilient together.

Grounded Presence helps you align body, emotions, mind, and spirit so that your energy flows naturally. You become both flexible and strong, rooted and expansive. You embody resilience.

A Reflective Practice: The Tree Within You

Take a moment and reflect.

If I were a tree, what kind of tree would I be?  

Where in my body do I feel ungrounded?

What does stability feel like to me?

What helps me return to my center?

Feel into the tree’s qualities. When you walk into a challenge, imagine yourself as that tree—rooted in the Earth, expanding into light. Let your breath be your stable anchor. Let your heart be your compass.

Why This Practice Works

Grounding isn’t just poetic—it’s physiological.
When you focus on breath, body, and sensory awareness, you activate the parasympathetic nervous system—the body’s natural “rest and digest” response.

That shift lowers cortisol, regulates the heartbeat, and allows the mind to quiet.
You move from chaos to coherence.

Grounded Presence bridges science and spirit.
It’s how you embody peace instead of just talking about it.
It’s how you become the calm in the storm.

The Science: Grounding and the Vagus Nerve

Grounded Presence gently stimulates your vagus nerve—a key player in emotional regulation and resilience.

This long nerve runs from your brainstem through your heart and lungs into your gut. It’s the body’s main communication channel between mind and body.

When your vagus nerve is activated, it sends safety signals that say, You’re okay.

That simple message slows your heart rate, deepens your breath, and relaxes your muscles. Over time, this builds vagal tone—your body’s ability to return to calm after stress.

You can strengthen vagal tone by:

• Breathing slowly and deeply
• Humming, chanting, or singing
• Spending time in nature
• Placing your hand on your heart and feeling gratitude

Grounding literally trains your nervous system to recover faster. Each calm breath is a signal to your body: I am safe. I am home.

That’s the science of serenity.

Returning to Center

Every time you feel yourself falling into anxious thoughts, pause and ground. 

Feel your feet.
Breathe through your heart.
Remember your roots.
Listen to your inner wisdom. 

You don’t have to wait for a quiet weekend retreat to find balance. You can bring Grounded Presence into your commute, your meetings, your parenting moments, your creative flow.

Notice your in-breath as a doorway back to yourself.
Imagine your next out-breath is an invitation to expand wellbeing.

You can meet life’s changes with grace instead of resistance.

That’s the essence of resilience.

Join Me

If this message resonates with you, I invite you to go deeper.

Join my Grounded Presence workshop series—a community experience where we practice these tools together. Through movement, breath, awareness, and connection, you’ll learn to embody resilience in real time.

Because when you’re grounded in your body and guided by your heart, you become a living example of wellbeing and peace.

Get notified about my next Grounded Presence workshop by checking out my Wellness Universe profile. 

I look forward to meeting you. I would love to hear about your journey. 

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Leah Skurdal guides people to up-level their stress resilience to improve relationships. Leah shares intuitive insights in private Energy Healing to address the roots of disharmony. As an inspirational speaker and published author, Leah offers lively classes, experiential workshops, and keynotes.

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